November 5, 2014

How to Win Her Love For Good

Sounds like a title for a juicy Cosmopolitan magazine article….this is inspired by true events. It all started on a sunny afternoon in L.A., I was stuck on the dreaded 5 freeway, I got off and went to the mall. I walked into a store….and there she was; this sassy, edgy, and sexy woman. She was all that and more. We ended up talking for about 40 minutes, she was the store manager, and I just another customer. On my way out, I told her, “I am going to write a blog about you.” She laughed it off. And so I wrote a blog about her, and returned the next day to ask her out, and she said yes. We went out for two years…it was one of the most fulfilling relationships I ever had.

Is Chivalry Still Alive in L.A.

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What I Loved Most About Kat (not my ex-girlfriend’s name, she is very private, and I like to respect her anonymity).

She made life so divine that time stood still. I remember how she would look at me with care, love, and appreciation. And no matter whether I did something right or wrong, she would always make a crack about this or that; that is love. One of the most rewarding days of my life, was being there when she needed me most, and not making it a problem. We laughed about meeting interesting people while on vacation in Scotland. We could be with each other in silence, and enjoy our time together. She shared stories about her day, and I listened intently and remained present. We came up with our own words (scratchy), and our relationship was full of fun and joy. There were days that I was in the doghouse (she let me know), and somehow found a way to forgive me. I loved laying next to her in bed only a couple of inches away and speaking in whispers. I adore her zest and passion for life. I was always so proud of her work accomplishments; she was a rockstar. I am grateful to have the time together; she made life so divine that time stood still.

How to Win Her Love For Good…risk your feelings, tell her how you truly feel about her…and enter our fun writing competition…and who knows maybe she will win fun rewards too.